I once attended a wedding where the couple had ordered oversized floral centerpieces. They were stunning, no doubt—but they were also so tall and wide that guests couldn’t see each other across the table. Conversations were awkward, with people leaning sideways or standing just to talk. A few even gave up and moved their chairs to other tables.
The flowers looked gorgeous in photos, but during the reception, they became more of an obstacle than a feature. Guests spent more time trying to peek around them than enjoying the meal.
Décor should elevate the experience, not interrupt it. Big doesn’t always mean better. A professional knows how to balance beauty with function, creating a setup that photographs well and keeps guests comfortable.
Couples often fall in love with breathtaking Pinterest photos or magazine spreads without realizing that those images are often styled for the camera—not for real-life interaction. What looks magical in a photo shoot can feel overwhelming in a live event.
At real weddings, guests talk, eat, laugh, and move around. Décor should support that energy, not suppress it.
Consider the View Across the Table
Before finalizing your centerpiece height, sit at a test table and see if you can clearly make eye contact with the person opposite you. If not, it’s too tall.
Mix Heights for Visual Interest
Instead of identical tall arrangements, combine varying heights—some low, some medium, and a few elevated ones that don’t block faces.
Think About Function First
Guests will need space for plates, glasses, candles, and conversations. The décor should enhance comfort, not compete with it.
Consult a Professional Planner or Designer
An experienced event planner knows how to merge aesthetics and practicality. They’ll help you choose designs that photograph beautifully and work smoothly in real life.
Prioritize the Guest Experience
Remember: your guests are part of your memories. If they’re comfortable and happy, your event automatically feels more beautiful.
écor is the art that frames your celebration—it should never steal the spotlight from the joy happening around it. Go for elegance that connects, not extravagance that divides.
When in doubt, choose beauty that breathes, not beauty that blocks.
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